Here are 10 warning signs that you or someone you know may be in a violent relationship: 1) They seem to have more accidents than most people you know; 2) They are often late to work or sick; 3) They receive harassing phone calls; 4) They are expected to be home at a certain time and appear to be fearful of missing that deadline; 5) They have no money to spend as they choose, even though they work and are expected to turn over their paycheck; 6) They have decreased or dropped contact with family or friends; 7) They may abuse alcohol or drugs; 8) They are either frequently timid or retiring or aggressive and angry; 9) They frequently disparage their own abilities, call themselves names like dumb, stupid, clumsy or worthless; and 10) they have a number of physical complaints, such as stomach pain, fatigue, migraine or psychological complaints like anxiety or depression.

If you or someone you know is the victim of Domestic Violence, it’s time to #standup and seek help. Everyone deserves to be in a healthy relationship. Asking for help isn't easy and gathering the courage to leave a violent situation can be even more challenging. If you or someone you know is thinking about leaving an abusive relationship—and in in immediate danger—call 911. Get to a safe place such as a friend's or family member's house, a hospital, or a hotel. The Windsor Police Department is also a good resource as is the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.